Are Escorts Right for You?
The comfort that escorts can provide is a no-brainer, however, there are some factors you must consider before choosing to make use of escort services. Note that these kinds of services are not for everyone and the possibility exists that you may simply need to find another way to meet your intended needs. Review the three areas below before making that call or sending that e-mail just to be on the safe side. Note that is not exhaustive,
Escorts must be attractive in multiple ways to be able to win over clients. They are usually physically stunning; have great conversational ability and embody many traits you may be looking for in a suitable partner. These factors mean it is quite easily possible for you to develop an attraction to an escort, especially since the attraction is encouraged. However, this is a job for your escort and you are a client. Whatever you feel becomes irrelevant once the transaction has ended and if you are the type of person that may fall in love easily or you find it difficult to let go off any feelings you may develop during interactions such as these then you may want to reconsider using escort services. What you may end up doing is putting yourself through emotional turmoil and you may even begin harassing the escort depending on your personality.
Escort services are not cheap and while the escort will oblige you for the time you pay, it is important that you are sure of the value this transaction will have to you. For example, if you are only interested in sex and you typically last 15 minutes, is it worth paying an escort $100 or more for an hour? If you need someone to talk to, is it worth the monetary requirement or can you simply speak to someone in your life? Ensure you understand what represents value for you before proceeding.
This one is a huge factor in how you interact with an escort and possibly how well she provides her service to you. Many users of escort services do not approve of the profession and this has bearing on the way they communicate. If you are such a person, how do you interact with a person who has a job you may not like? Do you speak in a condescending, judgmental tone? Are you quick to lecture and impose your own values? How good are you at making conversation with a stranger? Are you a person that typically respects boundaries? These, among others, are questions you need to answer because they determine how you will communicate with the escort and if she is not comfortable, you may not have a very good time.
These are just three of the many factors you should consider before you make the decision to use escort services. It is as delicate a business as it is costly and many of the principles of random human interaction apply to these scenarios. The bottom line is thinking about who you are and all the reasons an escort may not appeal to you. If you are comfortable enough after you have done this, then proceed by all means.
Escort Etiquette – being respectful with escorts
Maintaining respectful relations with escorts in instrumental to ensuring a positive experience. Escorts genuinely want to provide their clients with a memorable experience, however, that intention can quickly disappear if the escort determines that the client is disrespectful and undeserving of such treatment. If you will be using escort services, it’s important to understand a few things in your interactions.
Escorts advertise their rates for their services and are ready to provide the services with no reservations. In a similar manner, you should be prepared to hold up your end of the bargain and pay the stipulated charge. Attempting to pay the escort less or trying to get him/her to reduce the charge indicates a lack of integrity, and a lack of respect for the escort’s profession and time.
This is a bit of a weird one as the nature of the service implies an escort’s willingness to submit to your will. However, the need to provide you with enjoyment does not necessarily kill the escort’s need to be comfortable. Escorts usually clearly advertise the services they are willing to provide, and they further cement this during the initial discussion where the agreement is made. Many clients show disrespect for the escort’s wishes and disregard for the escort’s principles by trying to coerce the escort into walking along uncomfortable lines. This is not recommended as the impression which the escort is given will likely reduce the enthusiasm necessary for you to get the best service. Also, do not try to overstay your welcome as an attempt to solicit extra time at no extra cost. When the agreed time has elapsed, be courteous and leave (outcall) or allow the escort to leave (incall).
Proper Hygiene is Essential
There are some things that you can do to make the escort experience both pleasurable and easier, and practicing proper hygiene is one of them. Remember that as the body generates sweat and as impurities settle on the skin, it becomes a less pleasurable experience in both sight and smell for the escort. For example, your pubic area naturally generates a foul smell as time passes and so the area must be kept clean. Do not make the experience an awful one just because you were too lazy to do completely normal cleanliness activities. Shower and ensure you are properly groomed before meeting your escort.
Relate to a Person, as a Person
This should be an obvious one, however, it seems to be a lost concept. It is understood that the escort is incentivized by the monetary exchange and so the interaction is not under normal circumstances, however, this does not mean you should treat the escort as someone who is beneath you (unless it is done during sexual intercourse and consent was received). Imagine how you’d relate to a person you are attracted to and communicate to the escort with the same level of respect and tact.
Respect will always earn you brownie points with escorts and the four highlighted areas are some very simple yet effective ways in which you can show respect and derive a good experience.
Tipping Escorts/Do you tip escorts?
Tipping is one of the most divisive areas among consumers of services. There is the question of if it should be done, and just how much to give. First, let us establish that tipping is not mandatory. There is no rule or law that establishes that it must be done and so it is a show of courtesy more than it is anything else.
The rule of thumb here is that you should view your escort as a service professional and chances are he/she will ensure that he/she is well put together. Additionally, the escort will maintain professionalism and put focus into ensuring that you enjoy the service. This is an approach that is taken by most service professionals as your happiness results in a better work environment for them as well.
If an escort is attached to an escort agency, then the profits they make are skewed considering much of it is taken by the agency for their own expenses and their own need for profit. Usually, the tipping is done via an agency account as they do not encourage directly handing funds to their escorts. Additionally, there are taxes that the escorts must pay and so leaving a tip helps them to offset such charges. If the escort is not attached to an agency, there are still expenses that are to be paid in the wake of taxes, travel and general upkeep of themselves and their homes (this becomes relevant for incall services).
Apart from their expenses, tipping is something that helps to lift an escort’s spirit in what can be a fulfilling but taxing form of employment. Escorts must deal with multiple clients, sometimes in the same day. Whether the clients are repulsive, disrespectful or possess other negative qualities, the escorts must look past it to prepare themselves mentally for the next client, so the best experience is given. This approach, while good for customers, can be very overbearing on escorts yet their professionalism hides it. Tipping is one way to show that you are grateful that great service is provided is spite of such challenges.
Speaking of gratitude, this is the central concept of tipping. While the provision of a service is expected for monetary compensation, escorts typically go above and beyond to ensure that you don’t just feel the value of the core service. They aim to ensure that you have a complete customer experience, even if it calls for establishing a pseudo-relationship for the duration of the transaction. Once you can feel and experience the result of the effort, a tip says, “thank you” and sort of acts as the escort equivalent of a successful job appraisal.
Finally, there is the concept of repeat business. It is quite possible that you may want to employ the use of escort services again in the future. It also stands to reason that an escort that stood out is one you would consider again. Similarly, escorts usually filter the clients they choose and a positive experience with you is likely to make it likely that the escort will do business with you again. This positive experience is achieved through showing respect and can be enhanced by tipping.
If you are considering tipping your escort, a simple 10% – 15% should suffice.